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- Harmless reminder that Tinubu is doing so much for you.
Harmless reminder that Tinubu is doing so much for you.
The content of this episode is not about Tinubu but you as a person in the society.

I am backkkkkkkkkkk * whatever line from naira's verse that comes to your mind is on you* 😂😂
Come closer I need to ask you, President Tinubu is doing so much for you and everyday of your life, all you do is focus on people when you should be the one to seek help. Urgh. You know that Yoruba saying “ atupa tana fun everybody but ko le ri idi ara, it's not exactly how it's written but it means a lantern lights for everyone but it's dark underneath of the lantern that is your torchlight”
Before you start to read this, make peace with the fact that people who “allegedly “ dress indecently will find husband, successful husbands even and will last in their homes more than you who thinks you are better. I told you it's not about Tinubu before you think of insulting me and reminding me how much I am suffering. Though, I still respect him amd fw what he's doing, some of you just have pure hatred that's blinding you.
quick flash * life is not nollywood and because you arr hating on them doesn't mean they will actually end up marrying someone or last in their marriages and you won' and vice versa. 😂 Do you get my point?
Miss me much? I bet you do. I want to quickly drop one or two about a pressing issue, women dressing. I know you are wondering what it is, but I have a totally different thought about the approach to women dressing in the present world that we are. I find it irritating, so to say.
I saw two disturbing videos of women being insulted over their dressing, and I can't but think, nahhhh... you people are going crazy over what's less of your business.
The first one was this woman dressed in a crop top and a tight fitted skirt lined by the side of both thighs, exposing that side of the thighs up to her waist. Then there comes these guys who walked up to her by the side of the road, on the top of his voice telling her to go home and change then went ahead to pour water on her as he continued to shout, ON TOP OF HIS VOICE "go home and change". Mind you, the guy has his hair plaited, lol and the last time I checked the societal standard of dressing, plaiting hair as a man is a total no no but you are harassing someone because of how she dressed. Okay.
The second video, a woman who appeared to be elderly and a public figure brought to the face of her camera two girls dressed in crop tops and minis pointing out that their nipples are out and it's unacceptable, hence, they are disqualified for the audition after showing their faces to the world for dressing that way. Mocking them under the guise of “correcting them” and telling the public how it's not allowed.
These two videos and more of it, and what will the majority say? Women get raped because of their dressing. Uhm, okay. And some even go as far as saying they won't find a man that will last with them because of the way they dress, I kid you not because life no be nollywood. 😂
Here comes nothing but my judgement based on the way my head rolls presently. The women, well, it's none of my business how you dress. Yes, Idc, if you go out naked and I expect that nobody should too, just like I wouldn't want anyone to care about a veiled woman and questioning her about why she dresses that way. Dygggg?
I mean, the Muslim society fought many times to get Muslim girls that freedom to use hijabs and veils in their respective schools. When they say, "How does my dressing affect you, do I even complain?" Like that. I remember when i was writing my GCE and on the day i had mathematics, this supervisor came, an igbo man, asked the guys sitting with me to move because they don't know if I'm hiding bomb underneath my dress and everyone laughed. It was crazy that day but more crazy because it was maths exam and you just asked my partners to move. Wo, thank God sha. 😂 I imagine how I felt and how people who got harassed for dressing in a Muslim way might have felt and I can't think of how it is different with these people, too.
The point is, the embarrassment of calling attention to these people like you people are God's right hand. That's what is crazy. You are not even their parents. And even if worse come to worse, there are subtle ways to correct people.
Additionally, I think people should slow down with the "who will marry you?" At every situation. They will find people that will marry them which obviously isn't you while some lasts and don't, it's definitely not solely because of how they dress or any situation tagged in it but just because God didn't allow it. Many of you are crazy and you think life revolves only around getting married, and if you don't have a woman or man especially, you are supposed to die and cease from ever existing. 😭
Ps: I have said it before and I am saying it again that because you don't like something doesn't make it bad for everybody, also, our mentality are shaped by our experiences, the way you think is not the way everyone thinks and because you don't like a BADDIE doesn't mean she won't find husband. As you digest this information, make peace with that known fact and don't continue to live your life like that.
There are men who don't like women in sport or lift weights while there some who would kill to have women like that in their life and if you find these type of women when you don't want that in a partner, leave them and find those who are peaceful with just living their life hating on people who enjoy sport. You like slim women, found a fat woman and make it your life mission to get her to gym and use every weightloss product you come across, ha, you will be find eventually. I mentioned women as victims because they receive the stereotype more and I am a woman, too, I can give more reasons from a woman's point of view.
Wo, in short, find your missing rib instead of placing a rib where you can find it pretending it's your missing rib.
Thank you for reading, as usual. I love you & can we start a gofundme for me, please? I want to run far away to a place that I don't have to talk to many people or have social media. Thank you, my fans. 😂😂😂